I am going to blunt for my family and friends, there are 4 days (3 of which may be 'relatively' soon) that I do not expect to be functioning at a high level. These will be hard days.
April 04. Perry will have been dead as long as he lived. What logic can wrap your head around so small a time frame? People who have lost adults will not understand this, there is a good probability that they will never have to face this day with their loved one.
June 08. One year birthday. A day filled with missing.
May-Julyish. Autopsy results. This is still hanging, 6-8 weeks was replaced with 6-8 months.
And next year Nov 6. One year since his death.